You can heal your sorrows. You can share your joys.
I have lived long enough to believe that things happen for a purpose. If you believe that is true, read on dear friend. You are here for a reason.
I am committed to sharing the healing, hope and inspiration that has been showered down upon me during my life thus far--miracles, I guess you could say. To that end, I have written a memoir that is full of opposites: hope and despair, sadness and joy, tears and laughter; a tale of being lost and then found, broken and then mended. I offer my writing to the world with the sincere desire that those who come across "Broken Water" will find within the pages the words for feelings they have yet to express, space to feel them and the inspiration and motivation required to walk their unique path toward healing.
But this book is not about me alone. It is about 11 sisters who journeyed similar paths, though separated from each other. It is about the unbreakable bonds of sisterhood, healing from childhood abuse, and reclaiming a life to be lived to its fullest.
If this sounds like your type of book, please know that 10% of all profits is given to organizations that prevent child abuse. If not, I hope you find the other offerings on these pages to be of benefit to you or someone you love. I speak to you from my open heart. I hope you read and listen from yours.
I was three years old when I entered the orphanage. Here is a picture of me with a sister's arm around me. I wasn't unhappy. I didn't miss my mother. I was surrounded by the love and nurturance of my sisters. But, as is the case with most abandoned children, we were eventually separated and placed into foster care.
I was traumatized by the separation from my sisters. I would carry that within my broken heart for forty-three years. Until...
"Broken Water" is a memoir that tells the true story of my efforts to survive child abuse in a foster home while seeking to reunite with my sisters. It invites the reader to journey with me through a miraculous reunion followed by a 15-year effort to learn my family's history and to write each sister's heart-wrenching story of abuse and abandonment. It shares our experiences while living in orphanages, foster care and adoptions. Sadly, the stories of children in the system today are hauntingly familiar.
"Broken Water" is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit, the strength of a bonded sisterhood, and the power found in having faith in miracles and something greater than the self.
Rev. Barbara Lane
I have worked with individuals from all walks of life--all races, cultures, and creeds, often referred to me through rehab centers, counselors, psychiatrists, and physicians. In addition, I have spent many years working as a child advocate, studied family psychology with a focus on child abuse and worked with abused and neglected children and their families.
The curious, brave, strong, and magnificent child you once were is still within you just waiting to be honored! During my 25-plus years in practice, I have sat with many who have struggled to come to terms with their past or to deal with current life issues. Even if your childhood was stellar, life events can be traumatizing. I have had my own struggles and presume I will have more.
Healing involves challenging the negative messages you carry around inside your mind and replacing them with words, stories, and expressions that offer hope and reveal your magnificence and the glorious child you once were.
In my efforts to help souls heal from trauma, I am honored to be writing the first in my series of "Broken Water" Personal Growth Workbooks - "WHAT YOUR INNER CHILD KNOWS: 9 Steps To Rescue Your Abused Inner Child. Drawing from my years of experience working with individuals, couples and families, this workbook is designed to help you grow personally and spiritually. Barbara Lane Personal Growth Workbooks are also helpful resources for counseling sessions, group sessions and church prayer meetings. I hope you find inspiration in each of the upcoming releases. I am writing them to help you help yourself.
I first started working with Barbara about 2004. When I first came to her I was suffering from depression, anxiety, and self-hatred as a result of many years of abuse from my father as I was growing up. She is absolutely the best counselor that I have ever worked with, and she very likely saved my life.
She is the first person in my life that I ever experienced unconditional love from, and she put me on a successful healing path that continues to this day. I now speak publicly about my years of childhood abuse and my eventual recovery, and I always talk about the most vital part of my recovery, which was working with a fantastic counselor. That counselor was Barbara Lane.
Kelvin Pierce, Author
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