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Next Free ONLINE Community Gathering Wed. June 11, 7PM ET Topic: SHAME

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Join Rev. Barbara for Free Online Discussion Groups

Grab a seat by your computer and join us for a conversation about our feelings.

Topic: Understanding feelings to enhance personal and spiritual growth. FOCUS: Shame


I am thrilled to offer my time to speak with you about  healing  from childhood trauma. As a ministerial counselor with 25 plus years experience working with families, couples, and individuals,  I am pleased to share and teach the basic concepts covered in the self-help workbook "What Your Inner Child Knows: Nine Steps to Rescue Your Abused Inner Child." 


The upcoming session on June 11 will focus on our feelings  with a special discussion surrounding issues of shame. Where does shame come from? What is the difference between healthy shame and toxic shame? Why is healthy shame important and how can we rid ourselves of the heavy burden of toxic shame?


Don't miss this powerful free virtual community discussion. 


WHAT ARE THE NINE STEPS?

      

Step One: Acceptance and   Support

Step Two: Understanding Feelings: Shame, Sadness, Anger and Fear

Step Three: Meeting Your Inner Child

Step Four: Honoring Your Inner Child

Step Five: Utilizing Your Strengths

Step Six: Discovering the In-Between Place

Step Seven: Confronting the Critical Mind

Step Eight: Creating an Action Plan

Step Nine: Living From the In-Between Place

Should You Confront Your Abuser?

What Next?


As a survivor, along with my ten sisters, I know first hand the difficulties surrounding letting go of childhood pain. I'm honored to share all 11 sisters' stories of healing, as written in my memoir "Broken Water" and to further offer free zoom discussions surrounding all things healing.



Personal Mentoring

Topic of Our First Conversation Was Acceptance

Our first discussion covered the first step in ""What Your Inner Child Knows:" Acceptance.  I was thrilled to be in the presence of such brave souls. 


We covered some of the main topics regarding what acceptance is and how it opens the door to moving beyond childhood pain. 


One attendee said “I’m so grateful I showed up for Reverend Lane’s Power of Acceptance session. In just one evening, I gained practical ways to soothe the echoes of my childhood pain, all in a genuinely caring and judgment‑free space. I never felt pressured to reveal more than I wanted, and that simple respect for our boundaries gave me a new sense of power over my vulnerabilities.


Don't miss the next session  on June 11, at 7:00 PM Eastern where we will focus on issues of Shame, 



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Topics to be Covered in Future Discussion Groups

IN addition to the nine steps provided in "What Your Inner Child Knows: upcoming conversations will be centered around important issues the healing journey entails.  Join us for insightful online conversations where you'll discover practical exercises and heartwarming anecdotes that inspire and encourage. Let's walk together towards a future filled with compassion and strength, turning trauma into triumph.



THE IMPORTANCE OF FINDING SUPPORT:


Whether you find support here or elsewhere, cultivating a supportive community is invaluable for those on a journey of transformative healing. Begin looking for support by identifying individuals and groups that foster a sense of understanding and empathy. This may include joining support groups, attending therapy sessions, or participating in online forums, such as this, where shared experiences are discussed respectfully. 


Communities can provide a safe space to express feelings and receive encouragement from those who genuinely understand your journey. It's essential to choose support wisely, ensuring the promotion of positivity and resilience rather than focusing solely on past traumas. 


Remember, the goal is to find a community that uplifts and inspires you to continue nurturing your inner child and practicing self-acceptance. Over time, you'll find that networking not only supports your healing process but also empowers you to become an advocate for mental health and healing within your own circles. By contributing to and drawing strength from a positive community, you're actively participating in your own recovery.


SPIRITUALITY AND HEALING THE INNER CHILD:


Spirituality and healing the inner child go hand in hand, as nurturing our spiritual selves can provide profound insights and comfort in the process of reconnecting with our younger selves. In this exploration, we will uncover methods to integrate spiritual practices into inner child healing, such as prayer, meditation, visualization, and affirmations, which can help foster a deeper sense of self-acceptance and emotional wholeness.


Healing from childhood trauma can often feel like an uphill battle, but reconnecting with your inner child can be the first step toward transformative healing. This journey toward self-acceptance and nurturing your inner child is not just about revisiting the past; it's about embracing the resilience and hope within you. As you embark on this path, remember that you're not alone—support and community resources are available to guide you through each step. 


Self-acceptance is a crucial element in the journey of inner child healing. It involves acknowledging your past experiences, including the painful ones, without judgment. Embracing who you are, with all your complexities and scars, allows you to nurture your inner child with compassion. This process can be challenging, as it requires you to confront truths about your past that are difficult to accept. Yet, as Fern Bernstein eloquently noted, "Only God can turn a mess into a message, a test into a testimony, a trial into triumph, a victim into a victor." This transformation begins with acceptance. By doing so, you gain the strength to heal and the courage to reach out for support. As you embrace self-acceptance, you open yourself to a community of individuals who share your journey, and who can provide empathy and encouragement as you navigate toward a future of transformative healing.


Nurturing your inner child involves creating a safe space for that part of yourself to express emotions and needs. It requires you to be gentle and patient with your inner self, much like you would with a young child. This nurturing process can include activities that bring joy, creativity, and playfulness back into your life. Engaging in hobbies that you loved as a child or trying new, fun activities can be therapeutic. It's also important to practice self-compassion and affirmations that reinforce your worth and strength. As you nurture your inner child, you're essentially allowing yourself to heal from past wounds and embrace a future filled with hope. Encouragement from a supportive community or mental health support can be invaluable, helping you to stay motivated and resilient on this journey. Remember, nurturing your inner child is about building a relationship of trust and love with yourself, paving the way for transformative healing.


EXERCISES AND JOURNALING:


Engaging in exercises for emotional reconnection is essential to transformative healing. Start with mindfulness practices, such as meditation or deep breathing to help ground yourself in the present moment. This can create a space where you feel safe acknowledging and experiencing your emotions.


VISUALIZATION AND ART:


Visualization exercises can also be powerful; imagine yourself comforting your inner child, creating a vivid and nurturing scene in your mind. Art therapy, like drawing or painting, provides a non-verbal outlet to explore emotions creatively. These exercises can help you process past trauma and foster a deeper connection with yourself. As you practice these activities, remember that emotional reconnection is a gradual process and patience is key. Support from a trusted community, therapist or clergy member  can further enhance this transformative journey.


SHARING:


Sharing personal experiences is a powerful step in embracing your journey to resilience. By opening up about your past, you not only acknowledge your own story but also empower others who may be on a similar path. Whether through writing, speaking in support groups, or engaging in creative arts, sharing fosters connection and understanding. It also humanizes the struggles of inner child healing, making them relatable and less isolating. As you share, you'll likely find a community of individuals who resonate with your experiences and offer their own stories in return. This exchange of narratives creates a supportive environment that nurtures resilience and hope. Remember, your story is an integral part of who you are, and sharing it is an act of courage that can inspire both you and others to continue on the path of self-acceptance and transformative healing.


Conversational zoom gatherings are offered for free and will be presented in a relaxed "conversational" manner. You will need to register in order to receive the Zoom link for attendance.


Reservations are limited so grab your space soon. I'm looking forward to meeting you.


Have hope!


Rev. Barbara



What You Need to Know

  • You are welcome to join our Zoom gatherings without providing your picture/name if you wish, but you must register with an email in order to receive the link invitation.
  • This is a free outreach, so remember to share the time equally with others on the Zoom call
  • You are encouraged to share what has helped you heal, but please do not dictate to others what they must do to heal their pasts.
  • No disrespect or judgement will be tolerated.
  • Share your prayers, hopes and joys with us.
  • Gather and provide support. There is healing in numbers.
  • The meeting will be recorded, showing visual of  Rev. Barbara Lane, only. All identifying information will be redacted with only Audio version available for replay.


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